Features for introverts: You can really be yourself on OkCupid. Whether you're looking for the relationship of your dreams, a one-night stand, or a sham marriage (seriously, we’re not judging), OkCupid doesn't care unless you're being a jerk about it. On OkCupid, you’re more than just a photo, you can share stories, your passions, and pretty much anything else you want and feel totally at home.
Naughty flirting doesn’t get any better than on the appropriately-named BeNaughty. The app’s impressive features include location-based matching, private photo and video sharing, and sexy icebreakers to help you get the conversation going. Millions of frisky singles (whose average age is between 18 and 35) use BeNaughty and say it’s their favorite — so much so that the app has an 89% success rate. And, you guessed it, a free subscription will give you access to everything.
OK Cupid is the second largest free dating site online which caters to singles 30 and younger. The site offers Android and iPhone apps and appeals to web-savvy singles. With OK Cupid you can send out a list of questions a match must answer before communication begins. This is an optional feature that allows you to “get to know” more about someone before opening up a line of communication.
It’s very quick and easy to set up and use. The profile creation is pretty standard. You add photos, age, profession, and interests, and you can also specify what you feel like doing, whether that’s taking a walk in the park, seeing a movie, or having a drink. Happn has some nifty integrations — you can use Facebook to set up your profile, hook up your Instagram account to automatically add photos, and add Spotify to see if your musical tastes align.
The site has profile verification options to ensure you are matching with real people and not fake profiles. On top of that, the site has a Smart Match system that essentially allows it to learn your preferences the more you use it, and the option to send a “Mega Flirt” that reaches dozens of inboxes every 15 minutes. It's a site you won't easily grow bored of that aims to help you become a better dater.
Who it's good for: Hinge is the place for people who want a real relationship but don't want to commit to a full-fledged dating site with extensive questionnaires. Hinge literally labels itself the relationship app, or as I prefer, the "anti Tinder." Instead of seeing one profile at a time, Hinge is set up like Instagram, which creates a way smoother (and less judge-y) feel than swiping.
Most dating sites will match people on the traditional personality traits and interests — and having the same values and hobbies as your SO is obviously important. But what the creators of other apps might be ignoring is the fact that there's one thing stronger than the bond from two people liking the same thing, and that's two people hating the same thing. As seen on ABC's Shark Tank, the hater app is basically Tinder for people who have very strong feelings about the things they hate. This is perfect if you hate everything your ex loved, and you're trying to ensure that you never date a person like that again. Hate anything from slow walkers, to Donald Trump, cargo shorts, the phrase "Live. Laugh. Love," you name it — you know, all of the important stuff that matters in a relationship.
Dating apps generally try to give themselves a gimmick to differentiate themselves from the competition, but few have gone as far as Quiz Date Live. Essentially a cross between The Bachelorette and HQ Trivia, Quiz Date Live moonlights as a dating show within an app, as suitors compete to win a date with one particular lucky lady, the featured dater.
Tried it after my second divorce (you can see I’m pretty good at this relationshipping, eh?) and it was awful. One date basically interviewed me for “next wife and mother” position. I wish I was kidding. The rest was just a barrage of dick pics and come ons. #singleforlife
Valentine's Day has come and gone, but the search for the perfect mate goes on. And your smartphone may be able to help. Even a few years ago, Internet dating meant tethering yourself to your computer, but these days, mobile devices and location-sensing apps have turned the world into your playground for dates, hookups and long-term relationships, with even Facebook testing out a dating service of its own for its massive social network. Check out our top dating, hook-up and meet-up apps that will help you find the Right One... or the Right Now. (Image Credit: Bbenard/Shutterstock)
Also, there are some weirdly strict rules here, too (or as Thrillist's Lauren Brewer puts it, "What is this fucking militant dating app?"). Because you only get five matches a day, it won't be long until you come across a day where none of those five matches catch your eye. You'll have to suck it up though — because if you go too long without swiping on anyone or not contacting those matches, The League will call you out for being flaky or you'll get kicked off — and you'll have to pay $25 to be re-admitted.
flirtyQWERTY wants to help you “spice up your text life,” and that’s exactly what they do with their custom-made images. Go beyond the peach or eggplant emoji with dozens of sexy and fun, yet respectable, options from this private, anonymous flirting app. Similar to platforms like WhatsApp, flirtyQWERTY, which is available for free download in The App Store, also has their very own keyboard to make your sexting game even more efficient.
The gist: Though it's not the most attractive setup, Plenty of Fish is a great newbie choice for people just dipping their toes into the world of online dating. As a tried and true option that's been around for over 15 years, the 30+ crowd is way more familiar with Plenty of Fish than they would be with newer apps or even OkCupid, which recently received a modern makeover. The advertising, lengthy questionnaires, and profiles are extremely traditional, making this a safe bet for non-millennials, divorcees, and single parents who are not in the mood to mess around. Oh yeah, and its 90 million registered users beats out almost every other dating site's stats — so you're guaranteed to never get bored.