Like Grindr, but you get to see more pics upfront and can see who potential crushes have been favouriting, so you get an idea of their type and get to see if you’re in with a chance. I guess it can be kind of dispiriting to see someone you fancy favourite 63 identikit men with beards and huge chests in lurid Aussiebum pants, but faint heart never won fair maiden – you could be the exception that proves the rule.
The gist: Claiming to the be the app that "introduces you to every lesbian you've ever wanted to meet," HER is the award-winning mix of dating and social media that lets you meet girls you know are girls, as it requires a Facebook account for signup and is solely for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women.  Language is inclusive — it's not a lesbian site aimed at a male fantasy — and they'll help you widen your dating pool beyond the circles you already know IRL.
Another reason for using a dating site is to get away from traditional dating methods. Going to the local bar, blind dates, going to a dance or country club are some of the old ways of doing things. With the internet age among us we don't have to confine ourselves to our neighborhood and we can do our searching behind the safety of our screens. The internet allows for the unfiltered ice breaking opportunity to meet someone. The best part is that it's a Free dating site, so you have nothing to lose!

The downsides:  Uh, well, not a lot of people know about it. Though its download rate has been picking up rapidly over the past year, it's gonna be a little difficult to find mutual haters who are actually near you. I'm in the United States, and most of my matches were from Europe — which is fine if you're just looking to bitch about the same thing together, but not awesome if you're trying to start a legitimate relationship. (Give it time, though. I believe in this.) There's no desktop version (most modern apps will skip that), but the smartphone app is really hip and slick.
Met Paul @OttawaReno on @eHarmonyCanada.
Married him ❤️
(Had a first coffee date with two guys on the same day. Obviously one went much better than the other.) pic.twitter.com/aAGrde4cbp top dating site
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